I don’t really believe that a person can live and not regret a single decision, choice, act or even word he’s said!

No matter how wise we are, strong or confident… a day comes when this would be felt- ‘if time goes back, I would’ve done things differently or reacted differently in certain circumstances’. No matter how sure you were at that specific moment when you did this or that, there might come a time when you look back and say oh I wish I didn’t…

People might waste years of their lives with the wrong person… the wrong career, the wrong choice… the wrong degree,,, and when they finally realize that it’s the Wrong thing or one…. - they make themselves and others believe that lessons would be learnt from it all… nothing is wasted!
I agree.
This truely helps and makes it easy to comprehend and digest many of the things that happen in life and make us wonder… why did it happen in the first place!?

BUT deep inside.. there’s always the ‘IF’… no matter how hard we try …

If I could go back in time, I would’ve acted differently… wouldn’t say what I’ve said,,, wouldn’t be as open as I was !

It might be true that letting things out helps in healing whatever there is to heal.. but I now firmly believe that regretting words that were said causes much more pain and sorrow!