I respect someone who looks straight in my eyes and says, ‘I want to be with you now, and i’ll do my best for us to be together tomorrow,
BUT I just can’t promise because no one knows what will happen in a few hours, days, or years!’
I respect him for the courage, for the honesty and for the fact that this doesn’t make me feel less loved… it just makes love more realistic, true and real.
I disrepect someone who looks straight in my eyes and says, ‘we will get married in whatever years time, in the winter/summer/spring/autumn, in the year of 20**.’
This is what I call an open invitaion to live a lie.
And anything that is based on a lie has only one destiny… a miserable ending.