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Posted on 24-03-2007
Filed Under (Personal) by D

Recently, Im finding it really hard to deal with women! YES.. WOMEN!
I always thought having to deal with men who occupy high positions is easier.. the smarter a woman is and the more professional - the hardest to deal with she becomes and the more she complicates everything. I have no clue why!!!

I’ve been totally avoiding to organize or plan my wedding with women! Even for the flowers Im going for a male florist, they just tend to be more cooperative not only that but they have more patience, they listen carefully to you and then after you get over with all the blah blah talk, and take all the time to do the whole blah blah with all the little details included (as I have a perfectionist mom who pays extra attention to the smallest details including the fact that there should be flowers on the ribbon that holds the back of the chairs.. not the ribbon only -but the flowers on that ribbon too, )!
After getting done with all your requests and done with the special requests too.. the florist gives you an advice- if there is any- and then he’d just stick to exactly what you want without forcing you or isisting that you do a particular idea or thought..

Then there’s the DJ, Im glad to say that the guy im dealing with gives me every reason to look forward to the whole event.. he’ll be responsible for the lighting too.. he has so many brilliant ideas and he knows ‘what’s good for what’ kinda thing.. luckily I don’t have to worry about this part!

Many people say that the DJ and the photographer are the most important people in the whole occasion,, the DJ because he’ll be creating the mood for everyone to jump and dance (though with the kind of friends I have even a bad DJ would be more than enough and won’t stop them) and then there is the photographer… to treasure the memory and capture the precious moments.

I find it very hard to deal with women because with all that I need to do, women who are involved in those kinda thing tend to be extremly bossy and have very strong personalities that makes me want to go away and never come back… although I am a real feminist yet i believe in some situations women can be so hard to deal with and must be avoided! I can’t tolerate the way some women act .. and at this time this is the very last thing I need to handle.

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