In a shopping mall, park or street.. kids can be so funny and they really make all shopping experiences more enjoyable but only to the people who are watching and definitely not for the parents!
Being raised in a house where things need to stay in place, some closets are never to be opened and clothes must always stay clean.. it draws a big smile on my face when I see Messy kids. Noisy kids. Naughty kids.
But Im wondering if the too much freedom, and doing whatever kids want or feel like is always a good idea. As I was in K-mart the other day, a very sweet 4 or 5 years old little girl was trying out the black high heels her mom wanted to buy.. she looked so cute with her ponytail and small feet in the big high shoes, walking in a very funny way with the tied pair. It is a scene I will never be able to forget.. but that sweet cute incident started to turn to disturbance and real embarrassment for the parents as they wanted to leave and she just started to cry and scream refusing all their convincing attempts to take the shoes off..
Another funny kids adventure happened in Ikea today, as the parents were checking out the kids bedrooms, the children wanted to feel comfortable.. so one of the two sisters was jumping and the other one was covering herself with the barbie bed cover and actually sleeping in the displayed bed!
And this made me wonder whether the parents are really enjoying their uncontrollable children funny innocent behaviors.. or would they be enjoying it the first few times and then it won’t be funny anymore especially when things get out of control and children just stop listening or behaving?! Does the too much spoiling give kids more freedom to enjoy their childhood.. is it the healthy way of raising a kid -the modern way- as some people call it!!!?
i can’t imagine having those kids as mine! yeah even kids can abuse too much freedom
I think parents should control this from the very beginning, before the kids start misbehaving.
If the kids acted stupidly once they should understand that it’s not acceptable. It’s a hard job I guess, But these days kids are just going crazy and we need firmer parents…
Whenever I start complaining about kids attitude these days, I just try to stop myself, simply because I’m not a parent yet and I just don’t know what kind of a parent I will be in the future, and what it takes to raise a kid in this world :s
Not having children of course makes me an expert in parenting. ;-) Kids should not be allowed to be in public until they are at least four years old. And when they are, they should be quiet, polite, and respectful, and say “please” and “thank you.” Behavior other than that should earn them a swat.
Actually, all humans should be sterilized until they can prove that they (a.) have the intelligence to be parents, and (b.) have good ethics to be parents. Then they can receive a permit to have one (1) child. Exceptional parents may have two. ;-) But so many people today procreate merely because they can, not because they should or because they have any more brains than a small soap dish.
Dima, :(
I’ve been trying to comment for 4 days and it’s not working :(
i so agree with marvin..lol :)
nido.. yeah i try not to talk and comment about those issues :$ I mean who knows .. one can never know what the future holds for him :$!!!
Marvin.. that Was HILARIOUS! But makes sense ;)
Qwaider.. REALLY?!!! HOW COME?!! WHY..?!! This is strange.. you are not on my blacklist.. not yet :P
Ahhh… It finally worked :)
I am totally against spoiling kids to the extent that they become completely incontrollable.
well u have to let kids be kids…kids have a lot of built up energy..and when u drag them shopping for u, it is not fun for them..you can not excpet them to just sit around and not do a thing…i have had my share of stuff happening at the mall and the store with my two monsters….you have to pick your battles..if they are doing things that are harmless I let them be, as long as they are not ruining things and not being rude to people…i hate shopping with mama…she drives us crazy! he yells at the kids to stop whenever they touch anything, if they walk few feet ahead, if they talk to people..mama is always going ziad khalas, bilal come here, zozo no, bilal no..ziad could be looking at a shirt and touching it, and she would start la’a ziad dont touch…i have to tell her that the shirt is unbreakable..his hands are clean..if he wants to touch the shirt let him touch it..and relaz for god’s sake..it gets annoying at times when they are misbehaving..and I will not have that…i always stop them and threaten them with the longest time out ever..and selling their leapsters on ebay..that usually works for a while…it is best to shop kidless…but u have to let kids be kids..especially when u r dragging them from one store to another..shopping is fun for us, but not for them….hubby acts worse…he whines are u done yet? so i would prefer loud kids who want to explore as apposed to a whinning hubby:)ok this was long…im late to the gym..shoot..i hope it posts! or else i will be very mad!
yeah I guess now it makes more sense.. I like kids to act their age but as you said as long as it’s not harmful. that’s funny about the whining hubby :$ I always prefer to shop alone, sometimes I can be so picky and I hate to feel that im limited with a certain time.. haha
ah btw Sam thank you for the long comment.. it’s great to hear it from someone with experience in that field :)